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spinnerpom
03-28-2004, 03:18 PM
I've been in kind of a weird place emotionally lately...stress at work, stress at home...I love my job but I'm just not very happy with the rest of my life...you know, the part that really matters, the relationships, how I feel about myself...kinda complicated to go into...but I've been trying not to think about it or think about myself too much and focus my energies elsewhere. Once in a while it catches up to me.

Anyway, I don't know why I felt compelled to mention that part of it, just needing to vent, I guess?

But today, for some reason...maybe I just needed to ride? Maybe I just needed the great energy I get from my riders...

But today was one of those days that makes it all worth it. The time, the cost of the music, the continuing education, the washing 3 loads of black spandex every week.

Every once in a while you get on that bike and you have your riders all on the same road, all climbing the same mountain and pushing the same flat. And you look around and they're all peaceful and focused and smiling and they're with you every step of the way?

And that husband and wife couple, in their very late sixties, who just discovered spinning and LOVE IT, they're looking great in the saddle and you go over and tell them they have beautiful form, and they look like they're about to kiss you...and after class, people come up and say, "I didn't want to come today, but I'm glad I did"...or "the first ten minutes, I wasn't sure I was going to stay but now I feel great" or "that was so motivating" and "the music was so moving..."

Someone came up to me in the locker room after class and commented on how much fun it was, and I said, "yeah, it was fun for me, too" and said, "you know, it never feels like work when I'm in that room, but today...I guess I really picked up on all the energy in the room, I really had fun riding with you guys."

I know this is about our riders, not about us, but MAN did I need it today. And now I'm in my office on a Sunday afternoon and the blues are kickin' back in, and every time I start feeling crappy I think about Al & Sandy, the almost sevent-year-olds and how strong they rode and how appreciative they were afterward....just feels good, you know?

Sara

andy jr
03-28-2004, 03:30 PM
:lol: Hi Sara!

Your kind of posts is what all of us need to hear once in a while. It makes our lifes easier that day when the class is the other way.
Thanks from Anders

SPINFREAK
03-28-2004, 04:06 PM
Hey Sara,
Wow, your story really hits home! I've been feeling the same way lately. Barely got any sleep last night. To be honest, I really was not in the mood to teach this morning. However, when I stepped into the gym, my students were waiting for me with big smiles on their faces. One student said, "Good morning Linda, what do you have planned for us today!" I tell them, "we have a challenging loop today." They all sighed in unison.

The music starts, we start to warm up, everybody appears to be so focused. Right away this movtivates me to forget about my problems. Walking around the room, checking form and cadences, all twelve of my spinners had their eyes closed, that's a first in my class. They appear to be so into their ride. I could tell that their minds and bodies were feeling a connection.

At the end, we cool down and stretch. Some students were asking for more :o I'm so proud of them and to be honest, I was proud of myself.
Like you said Sara, "today was one of those days that makes it all worth it"

In Health, Linda

Christian spinner
03-29-2004, 01:28 AM
Spinnerpom~
It is Follow JC now known as Christian Spinner. I have been missing you believe it or not. :lol: I always look to see if you have posted. You usually have a lot to say. I will be pr_ _ ing for you to find focus and direction. Please just take that and leave it. I have those days too. especially when the kids seem to want to rule the roost. Just got bad news about 2002 taxes we owe $4500 all from other peoples misguidence and our tax guys forgot to implement one of my w-2 forms. go figure. You know who I trust and I will forever be gratefull for His guidence
Yes, the classes do take us away for awhile and it is so nice to be appreciated and looked up to. Family can be hard just remember that they love you and this to shall pass. Smell the roses Sara your not alone. Smile my friend. :P We are glad to see your still around. Work is work. You'll find some peace soon. Some times it is hard to carry and that is okay.
keep riding and looking up! :wink:
Christian Spinner

03-29-2004, 07:59 AM
thanks everyone!

Re-reading my post, it looks like a cry for help...and I don't think it was one, but maybe it was!!!!

It was really meant to be more about what this Spinning thing brings to our lives when we least expect it, and that's kinda cool, isn't it?

Thanks to everyone who emailed me, as well.

Sara

cyclecat
03-30-2004, 03:58 PM
Spinnerpom - Thanks for a beautiful post! It really reached out and touched a lot of us. We've all been there at times.... struggling to find our way in one aspect of our lives or another, and how great to get that positive energy back from your class!

I've always enjoyed your posts and music suggestions! What are you loving to ride to lately?

Cyclecat

SPARKY
04-01-2004, 04:12 PM
Dearest Sara:

I just joined the plhb website and am sending my first posting. I read a TON of responses on your topic as well as other topis and then realized that YOUR message was BY FAR the one worthy of an honest response. Corporate America is draining my physical, mental, and emotional resources,...... and the indoor cycling classes I teach help me put into perspective whats important.

Being part of others goals and aspirations to help them "pedal their way into a better tomorrow" is my secret drug for getting me thru another day, another week, another month. I find inspiration and encouragement in each of my classes - and it comes directly from the ridership. Seeing all of them ready to go when the class is just about to start helps put it all into perspective.

I always tell my ridership,.... that "happiness" begins with good health.
And therein lies a good foundation for building a happier and healthier tomorrow.

Your insightful, and "from the heart" comments are greatly appreciated. It really hit home with me. Thanks for the honesty. This kind of stuff you DON'T learn when you get certified as an instructor. This comes from life experiences. I think we all "grew a bit" from you willingness to share.

SPARKY